Life in Islam is not as some incorrectly believe; that it must
not have any entertainment whatsoever. A companion of the Prophet (s.a.w.) named
Handalah al-Usaidi said:
“Abu Bakr met me and asked: ‘How are you O Handalah?’ He
replied, ‘Handalah has become a hypocrite!’ He replied, ‘Far
removed is Allah from every imperfection! What are you saying?’ Handalah
said: ‘When we are with the Messenger of Allah (s.a.w.), he reminds us about the Hellfire
and Paradise as if it is before our eyes, but when we leave the company of the
Messenger of Allah (s.a.w.),
we become involved with our wives, children and property and we forget much.’ Abu
Bakr said: ‘By Allah, indeed the same happens to me.’ So Abu Bakr
and I left until we entered upon the Messenger of Allah (s.a.w.). I said, ‘Handalah has
become a hypocrite O Messenger of Allah (s.a.w.)!’ The Messenger of Allah (s.a.w.) replied, ‘And how is that?’ I
said, ‘O Messenger of Allah (s.a.w.), when we are with you, you remind us about the Hellfire and
Paradise as if it is before our eyes, but when we leave your company, we become
involved with our wives, children and property and forget much.’ To that, the Messenger of Allah (s.a.w.) commented: ‘By Him in Whose Hand
is my soul, if you stay in that state you are when you are with me, the angels
would [descend and] shake your hands in your beds and when you walk, but
rather, O Handalah, there is a time for this and a time for that (and
he said this three times).’ ” [Muslim]
Here
the Prophet explained that permissible enjoyment and self-refreshment is
something desirable so that man would regain his activity and liveliness. The Prophet
(s.a.w.) taught his companions the manners of joking when they asked him:
“O Messenger of Allah (), you joke with us?” He said: “Yes,
but I do not speak except that which is correct and true.” [at-Tirmidhi]
One may joke with his actions as well as with his speech. Anas
bin Malik ()
reported that a Bedouin called Zaahir used to bring presents from the
desert to the Prophet (),
and the Prophet (s.a.w.) used to supply him with provisions upon leaving. The Prophet
(s.a.w.) said: “Indeed Zaahir is our ‘desert’ and we are his ‘city’.”
One day, the Prophet (s.a.w.) came to him (unsuspectingly) while he was
selling his goods and grasped him from behind. Zaahir exclaimed: ‘Release
me!’ Then he looked behind him and recognized the Prophet (), so he pressed his back against his
chest. The Prophet (s.a.w.) called out: “Who will purchase this slave?” Zaahir
said: “O Messenger of Allah, you will find me worthless!” The Prophet
(s.a.w.) answered: “But to Allah, you are not worthless (or he said) Rather
you are valuable in Allah’s estimation.” [Ibn Hibbaan]
One should not joke in a way to harm or ill-treat another
Muslim. The Prophet (s.a.w.) said:
“It
is not permissible for a Muslim to scare another Muslim.” [Abu Dawood]
He ()
also said:
“Let
not anyone take his brother’s things (to
anger him) seriously or jokingly.” [Abu Dawood & at-Tirmidhi]
A person should never lie while joking. The Prophet (s.a.w.) said:
“Woe
to the one who lies in his speech to make people laugh. Woe to him! Woe to
him!” [Ahmad & AbuDawood]
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