Thursday, 28 May 2020

Manner of Having Sexual Intercourse With One’s Spouse In Islam


1. Mention the Name of Allah

Before having marital relations with your spouse, one should mention the Name of Allah in the manner The Prophet (s.a.w.) described. He said:

“If someone says (before sexual intercourse) when he approached his wife, ‘With the Name of Allah; O Allah, keep Satan away from us, and keep Satan away from what you grant us [from offspring],’ then, if Allah grants them a child, he (Satan) will not harm him.” [al-Bukhari]

2. One Should Sport With His Spouse.

The Prophet (s.a.w.) said to Jaabir:

“Did you get married O Jaabir?” I said, “Yes.” He said, “To a virgin or a previously married woman? Jaabir answered: 'To a previously married woman.' He said: 'Why didn't you get married to a virgin, so that you sport with her, and make her laugh and she makes you laugh.” [al-Bukhari & Muslim]

A'ishah (r.t.a) said:


“The Messenger of Allah () would kiss me while he was fasting.” [al-Bukhari & Muslim]

3. Enjoy Each Other In Any Way They Like

They may enjoy each other in any way they like, with the condition the Prophet (s.a.w.) explained to ‘Umar when he came to him saying:

“O Messenger of Allah (s.a.w.) I am destroyed!” He said: “And what has destroyed you?” He replied, “I changed [the position] of my mount (wife) in the night!” The Messenger of Allah (s.a.w.) did not answer him. He (‘Umar) said: “Then this verse was revealed to the Messenger of Allah (s.a.w.):

Your wives are a tilth for you, so go in unto your tilth as how and when you wish.[2:223]

Go to them front or behind, but avoid the anus and menstruation43.” [at-Tirmidhi & ibn Maajah ]

4. One Should Not Withdraw After Ejaculation Until She Has Fulfilled Her Desire.

One should keep whatever takes place between them and their partner private. The Prophet (s.a.w.) said:


“Indeed from the worst stations of people on the Day of Resurrection is one who has marital relations with his wife and then spreads her private matters.” [Muslim]

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