1. Mention the Name
of Allah
Before having marital relations with your spouse, one
should mention the Name of Allah in the manner The Prophet (s.a.w.) described. He said:
“If
someone says (before sexual intercourse) when he
approached his wife, ‘With the Name of Allah; O Allah, keep Satan away from
us, and keep Satan away from what you grant us [from offspring],’ then, if
Allah grants them a child, he (Satan) will not harm him.” [al-Bukhari]
2. One Should Sport With His Spouse.
The Prophet (s.a.w.) said to Jaabir:
“Did you get married O Jaabir?” I said, “Yes.” He said,
“To a virgin or a previously married woman? Jaabir answered: 'To a
previously married woman.' He said: 'Why didn't you get married to a virgin, so
that you sport with her, and make her laugh and she makes you laugh.” [al-Bukhari & Muslim]
A'ishah
(r.t.a) said:
3. Enjoy Each Other In Any Way They Like
They may enjoy
each other in any way they like, with the condition the Prophet (s.a.w.)
explained to ‘Umar when he came to him saying:
“O
Messenger of Allah (s.a.w.) I am destroyed!” He said:
“And what has destroyed you?” He replied, “I changed [the position] of
my mount (wife) in the night!” The Messenger of Allah (s.a.w.) did
not answer him. He (‘Umar) said: “Then this verse was revealed to
the Messenger of Allah (s.a.w.):
4. One Should Not Withdraw After Ejaculation Until She Has
Fulfilled Her Desire.
One should keep
whatever takes place between them and their partner private. The Prophet (s.a.w.) said:
“Indeed
from the worst stations of people on the Day of Resurrection is one who has
marital relations with his wife and then spreads her private matters.” [Muslim]
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